Second Meeting - Notes

We had our second meeting last weekend (but I'm just now getting around to posting), and since we had some new attendees, we reviewed the short term/long term goals and talked about the definition of hoarding and why people hoard (previous posts). Our next meeting's homework is to share an organizational or clutter-busting tip/hint with the group - and to tell how we are using that in our own clutter-busting efforts.

Also - I wanted to let you know that I am duplicating these postings in a FaceBook group called "Hoarding/Cluttering Support Group" - in case you are a member of FaceBook.

One more thing: I had a question this week from one of our members - and will share the question and my answer - but would like to hear from you if you have other solutions they should try.

The question was:
How do you keep yourself focused on the project you are working on?
Such as: I’m working on my short term goal and before I know it I’m in another room doing something else. UGH

My answer was:
I think that you need to set “boundaries” for yourself. I don’t think you can totally keep from stepping beyond the boundaries, but when you notice that you have crossed the boundary, give yourself a (gentle) slap on the hand – and return to the assigned boundaries and continue your “project”. One thing is that you may have set the boundaries too large. For example, I’m thinking you may need to set a time limit and a smaller “piece” of the big project to do within the specified time limit.

(You may want to extend the time limit and add a piece – but knowing that you don’t have to “right now” may make it easier to stick to the boundaries.)

Also - Here’s a tip I found online:

3 Simple Steps to Clutter Busting

Have you ever noticed that clutter tends to suck the energy out of the marrow of your bones? Here are 3 simple steps to start breaking your clutter habit:

First. Select one SMALL area to clutter bust; not the whole kitchen, just one section of the countertop; not the whole office, just the top of one file cabinet or bookcase.
Get it? Messy closet? Just one shelf. Messy car? Just the front seat or glove box.

Second. Set a timer for 15 or 30 minutes to work on it. Don't do anything else during that time but put things away; make a place to put something and then put it away; or get rid of it.

Third. Approach the job with a huge trash can or bag, a container for stuff you will donate and an attitude of "If I don't need it or use it NOW, I will toss it, donate it or recycle it.."

Even clearing out this one small area will leave you feeling terrific. You know the old saying, "Success breeds success." Well, every time you look at his clutter busted area, you will feel successful, more organized and - best of all - energized.
And once you get started, you might even enjoy bringing order to your chaotic clutter.
Happy Clutter Busting. - http://www.ritaemmett.com/tips/tips-2007-06.htm

Keep it Klean! - Deby